As the third party, if your boyfriend is stuck in a sexless marriage, Lao Fo Ye your chances of becoming his official partner have skyrocketed! Just keep winning him over, and he'll surely make you his partner. Below, let's explore how to rescue your boyfriend from a sexless marriage and secure your place at the top.
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What the first wife couldn't give, I will.
The primary reason your boyfriend refuses to sleep with his wife yet pursues a relationship with you is that his wife fails to satisfy him sexually. He finds no novelty, sense of honor, or feeling of conquest with her, which is why he seeks fulfillment elsewhere with you.
What you need to do now is give him endless novelty, unrestrained passion, and complete submission and tenderness.
Sex like a fish in water
He's been married to his first wife for years, and she must be pretty conservative—the type who says no to everything. Otherwise, he wouldn't have strayed. This is your chance to seize the moment. Be a little more daring, a little more open. use every tool at your disposal—intimate accessories, lingerie, positions—whatever works. Make him so captivated by your bed and your presence that he can't bear to leave and reluctant to leave your side. Occasionally playing hard to get can also give him a huge sense of conquest and satisfaction.
When he makes requests in bed, try not to refuse him. You can play hard to get in other areas, but not when it comes to sex. If you can't satisfy him, he's highly likely to break up with you or seek out other partners.
What exactly is he after with you?
Of course, it's sex that feels like a fish in water—utterly satisfying and exhilarating. Only by first fulfilling his material desires and sexual urges, making him unwilling to leave you, will you have the chance to discuss other matters. Only then will you have the leverage to make him divorce his wife for you, elevate you to his rightful place, and become the envy of all as a heavenly couple.
Once he finds satisfaction in lovemaking, you become his treasure. Then, gradually win his heart, offering him the warmth and care he lacks from his wife. Make him stay with you night after night, forgetting his original partner altogether.
Docile and gentle
A man's infidelity stems from a complex interplay of factors, not merely sexual desire. If it were purely about sex, he could easily seek out one-night stands or other sexual encounters instead of choosing to develop a relationship with you.
Sexual dissatisfaction leaves him feeling low self-esteem and unappreciated at home. Coupled with the constant household squabbles, he inevitably clashes with his primary partner. Seeing her angry, dismissive face time and again, he will inevitably seek validation outside the home—a woman who adores him, cherishes him, and indulges his every whim. and you must become that woman.
When dealing with men, gently flatter them, praise them to the skies, and satisfy their macho vanity. Even if you must refuse, make them feel that "you really wanted to do it, but had to decline for some reason."
Although he already has a primary partner at home to care for him, as long as he stays with you, you must personally handle everything concerning him and remember all matters related to him—including his parents' birthdays. This will make him feel valued and that he is your top priority.
The first wife dismounts, I'll take her place.
At this point, if he's willing to get you pregnant, you have almost a 100% chance of dethroning the primary wife and successfully taking her place.
Remember, never resort to hysterical crying or arguing with him like a shrew. Tears are a woman's most potent weapon—weep with pear blossoms in the rain,weep with a sense of injustice, and then smile through your tears with understanding. Tell him you're willing to follow him for the rest of your life without any formal recognition, that you'll be his most understanding companion. But your baby is on the way—you don't expect him to abandon his wife, only that he'll visit often. At this point, men will inevitably feel guilty toward you and can't wait for his wife to step aside for you.
You've held him in the palm of your hand with such reverence for so long—wasn't this the day you've been waiting for?
Have you mastered the art of being a proper mistress? Lao Fo Ye four more Four Secret Methods for a Mistress to Ascend . Just flexibly combine and apply these, and from then on, you'll be the only woman by his side. The original wife? Get lost! As for mistress number four or five? You won't even get a chance to appear!
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