Devotee's Heartfelt Wish: Successfully divorce my husband and be with my boyfriend.
Dealing with relationship issues: My husband's indifference led me to have an affair. I want to divorce him and be with Xiao Wang.
採用復合方法：逆轉陰陽離婚法事
Estimated recovery time: 0.5 months
Composite Case Completion: Success
True Stories from Devotees
A weak and useless loser husband vs. a young, handsome, and considerate guy—the choice is obvious, right?
My husband's weakness and incompetence have completely broken my heart.
My husband and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for over half a year now. After all these years of marriage, I've realized he never truly loved me—all he ever cared about was himself.
When my in-laws criticized me, he never stood up for me; when my parents needed my care due to illness, he refused to step in; when I was heartbroken and needed comfort, he went out to attend a welcome party for a female colleague... There have been far too many incidents like these.
Eventually, I got so fed up that I didn't even bother arguing with him anymore—I just started sleeping in separate rooms.
For the past two or three months, though we've lived under the same roof, we've each kept to our own lives. Our work schedules and time at home have been completely out of sync. He has no feelings for me, and I don't want to see him either.
I found in him the joy you never gave me.
To shake off my persistent low spirits, I completely revamped my look—a fresh start that turned heads. Many colleagues in the office began showing interest in me. Before my divorce, I wouldn't have considered any of them.
However, one of the new male colleagues pursued me with remarkable intensity. Not only did he drive me to and from work, but he was also the first to offer comfort when I was feeling down. He even accompanied me whenever my parents needed to go to the hospital for follow-up appointments.
Moreover, I received from him the care and affection I had never found in my husband—the genuine devotion, profound love, and deep concern a man can offer a woman.
His kindness toward me has utterly captivated me. Though I know my position forbids any involvement with him, I simply cannot help myself. I find myself irresistibly drawn to him, helplessly sinking into the depths of his affection for me.
To repay his kindness toward me, and because I've become utterly disillusioned with my husband, I've decided to divorce him and be with my boyfriend.
My husband doesn't want to initiate a divorce.
However, when I brought up divorce with my husband, he tried every trick to keep me, saying he knew he was wrong and would make it up to me from now on, never letting me feel wronged again.His last-minute remorse is useless to me now. My resolve to divorce remains unchanged. After all these years together, I know him well enough. His current regret is nothing but empty words. Once I abandon the idea of divorce, he'll surely revert to his old ways. Because that's just how selfish he is. Ha.
I will not waver in my determination to get a divorce! I've endured enough over all these years!
However, divorce requires mutual consent from both parties. Legally speaking, he hasn't committed any marital offenses, so I can't file for divorce. How can I get him to willingly agree to divorce me?
After negotiating with him for over half a month, he remained adamant about not agreeing to the divorce. With no other options left, I had no choice but to seek divine intervention.
After meeting with Teacher Chen, I explained my requirements and current situation to her, hoping she could help me secure a smooth divorce. I strongly conveyed how unbearably painful life with my current husband has become and that my boyfriend is my true love, hoping to move her to assist me.
To smoothly divorce my husband and be with my boyfriend, I accepted all the advice Teacher Chen offered. Maintaining the Buddhist altar was no big deal for me, and keeping the "Three Goods" habits wasn't harmful either. Since it didn't hurt me in any way, I naturally followed all the advice.
Goodbye, jerk! I'm going to be with my true love, Xiao Wang.
The moment I received my new ID card, tears welled up in my eyes. At last, my arduous journey had come to an end, and I was ready to embrace a life filled with happiness.
The day after my divorce, I packed up all my belongings and moved in with my boyfriend. Our life together is incredibly happy—exactly what I'd always envisioned. After work, he takes the initiative to help with household chores. On weekends, he takes me back to visit my parents. At work, he proactively shares some of my responsibilities. No matter what happens, he always stands in front of me. To this day, I still don't regret my decision to divorce.
