Actually, it takes a little time to bend a straight guy.
When a gay man falls for a straight man, he often faces significant resistance, misunderstandings, or even extreme reactions from the other person.
Yet we often encounter inappropriate advances, causing the other person to feel repelled.
And often the person they want to bend
It's best to have regular interactions with people you see often, such as colleagues you frequently encounter.
Some people like their gym trainers, so they'll buy their classes. That way, they get more interaction too.
Through our interactions, we can soften the defenses of straight men toward us. Subsequently, we can strengthen the guidance to pique their curiosity about us, making them willing to accept us.
As the days passed and we interacted more, my inner resistance gradually diminished, leading me to bend the straight guy. But bending a straight guy often comes with another hurdle: navigating the smooth transition into a relationship afterward.
