成功佛堂第八期周刊-人人都該有的幸福秘訣

第八期:人人都該有的幸福秘訣

幸福就像蒲公英
一吹,滿世界飛

 

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成功佛堂第八期周刊-人人都該有的幸福秘訣

Foreword

懺悔的意義與目的

我後悔了,我們……

後悔即是「懺悔」嗎?
很多人常常把懺悔掛在嘴上:「我已經在懺悔了,你原諒我好不好」,但其實聞過不改,只是後悔,而不是懺悔。

懺,是查覺到過去自己所犯下的錯誤。悔,是知道錯誤後加以改進,並不再犯。

「改已往之惡因,修將來之善果」,對自己的過錯或罪惡進行慚愧發露和反省,並決心悔過自新,不復更造,是名真懺悔也。

每一刻的起心動念與壞行為都是在造業,有時我們不小心口出惡言,傷害到他人,就已經為你和他間種下了惡業,縱然你可能在出口的那剎那就已經後悔了,但你若不加以悔改、懺悔,累積起來的惡果,全都是你自己承受。

經曰:「假使百千劫,所作業不亡,因緣會遇時,果報還自受。」
懺悔要發自真心才有意義,並不是今天為了不造業……等等利益性的目的才去懺悔,要發自內心地覺得自己錯了,而不再犯,才是懺悔的意義所在。

在我們發心懺悔的那刻起,就有產生了功德,但記得要回向,才能抵銷不小心被你傷害到的人的業喔!

懺悔的方法

懺悔的方法有很多種,其中一種是做法懺,將功德迴向給十方法界眾生,這是屬於過失比較大的人的懺悔迴向。簡單的過失其實發心懺悔即可,但若你擔心不能將懺悔迴向給業主,或是這樣的懺悔自己覺得太沒有力量,那可以試著念老佛爺的「懺悔文」。

往昔所造諸惡業,皆由無始貪嗔癡,
從身語義之所生,一切我今皆懺悔。
迴向功德至債主,身心願信老佛爺。

每天靜心打坐時,回顧自己一天的過失,並發心改正,最後念三遍老佛爺的懺悔文,即可。這樣除了可以與老佛爺結緣,讓老佛爺幫助你外,也可以將懺悔迴向給業主。

 

 

懺悔

《心地觀經》曰:「若覆罪者,罪即增長,髮露懺悔,罪即消除。」

■ Speak kindly, act virtuously, and cultivate a good heart. Devotees are welcome Lao Fo Ye merit continuously dedicated to you, accumulating good karma!

 

 

成功佛堂第八期周刊-人人都該有的幸福秘訣

■ 老佛爺教你幸福的小秘訣

 

幸福的秘訣

 

我後悔了,可以原諒我嗎……

對不起我不應該劈腿,原諒我好嗎……

不要離開我,原諒我這一次好嗎……

再給我一次機會,我保證不會再犯了……

男人們,如果犯了錯,後悔了,都常都是以這樣的話語企圖來挽回另一半。女人們心軟,看不得自己的男人低下頭認錯,通常很快就會原諒了。

但老佛爺告訴你,這僅僅只是後悔,而不是懺悔。懺悔能獲得原諒,後悔不行!

 

懺悔與後悔,哪個可以被原諒

後悔是覺得自己做錯了,但下次還有很大機會會再犯,就是俗稱的「狗改不了吃屎」。舉個例子來說:男人這一次外遇被抓到,口頭上說後悔了並向妳保證不會再犯,但下一次可能會因為各種原因又再一次出軌,比如說,遭受到狐狸精誘惑等等。

再舉另一個例子:另一半酒醉家暴妳,清醒後他萬分抱歉,並承諾不會再這樣,但是當他下一次再喝酒,卻依然照樣打妳,將他的承諾拋到腦後。

如果遇到這樣的男人就早點離開吧!

懺悔比起後悔比較值得原諒是因為,懺,是查覺到過去自己所犯下的錯誤。悔,是知道錯誤後加以改進,並不再犯。「改已往之惡因,修將來之善果」,對自己的過錯或罪惡進行慚愧發露和反省,並決心悔過自新,不再犯,才叫「真懺悔」。

懺悔並不是口頭上說說而已,是必須要發自內心認為自己真的做錯了,反省自身,並不要讓自己再犯。因此比起隨時都有可能反悔的「後悔」,懺悔是真的不會再犯的,若另一半犯的這件事已經發自內心懺悔了,並且沒有觸碰到妳真正的底線,還是能原諒的。

但大多數的人往往做不到懺悔,僅能做到後悔,世俗的誘惑太多,沒有佛法智慧的人們渾沌愚昧很難參透懺悔的真正意義。

 

懺悔

 

 

面對暗戀好久的男生,我該繼續等他嗎?

妳心裡有這麼一個人嗎?只敢偷偷在背地裡看他,卻不敢表白。或是,妳向他告白後,雖然被拒絕,但還是決定要默默守護他,就怕他哪天回頭找不到妳。

無論是年少時,還是長大後,心裡總會有那麼一個人佔據在妳的心頭吧。

默默守護他好多年了,到底該繼續等下去?還是要給他祝福轉身離開,尋找自己的幸福呢?

 

放下吧,不必太執著

佛教言:「緣起性空」、「色即是空」。

這世間是一直在發生變化的,無論是人事物,因此不必太執著。佛教即是這個意思,事件的萬物一直在發生變化,不必太過執著,不必因為它的消失而悲傷不已,不必因為它的出現而興高采烈,只要順其自然即可。

妳喜歡上的他,只是當時驚鴻一瞥的他,只是當時的心動讓妳意亂情迷,這世間萬事萬物都逃離不了變化,妳能保證現在的他依然是讓妳心動的他嗎?

或許妳最後真的能等到他,但萬一發現他已經不是當初妳喜歡上的他了,或者是妳一直以來喜歡的就只是想像中那個完美的他而已,那那麼多年空等的青春該怎麼辦呢?誰能賠給妳那些應該幸福快樂的時光呢?

佛法的「色即是空」要我們順其自然,不必太過執著,該停留時就停留,該走時就走,不要因為得不到的人就耽誤到妳真正的幸福。

給自己一個時間點,跟自己許下約定,要是多久後他依然沒有喜歡上妳,那妳就該放自己自由,不要將時間與真心浪費在不愛妳、看不見妳的人身上,不值得!

 

暗戀

 

 

我的善良能帶給我幸福嗎?

你想要的幸福是什麼呢?簡單地另一半在一起,不要爭吵?變成億萬富翁?想要環遊世界旅行?升職,薪水變高?一家人幸福美滿地在一起?

幸福有很多種,除了自己要好好經營外,有時也可以借助外界的力量,減少困難與摩擦。

那應該要怎麼做呢?

功德是種善業的回報,如果多做好事,就能獲得功德,自然生活上的那些不平靜就能自然而然地被克服。

我們人的每一刻都在造業,每瞬的起心動念都會產生業,惡念惡行都會產生惡業,而這些惡業都會回報到自己的身上,造成生活上的磨難,愛情上可能會跟另一半起爭執,事業上可能會有很多困難,等等。

功德就是來彌平這些磨難,讓生活回歸幸福的,當磨難被消彌,多餘的功德也會讓我們之後的生活更好過,像是跟另一半順利結婚、家裡面不會再吵吵鬧鬧、升遷加薪,甚至還有可能突然中大獎喔!

 

怎麼讓幸福早日來臨?

常見的功德,除了有物質金錢上的捐贈外,平時的一些言語讚美、善心善念、心意祝福也都能產生善業與功德,閒來無事也可以到各地擔任志工服務貢獻。每時每刻都保有善念善行,無論是不是做功德,對我們的人生都會有很大的幫助。

平時,少些抱怨怨恨、憎恨厭惡的情緒,少些口出惡言,少些惡意捉弄,少些明針暗對,不然即使你做了功德,也彌平不了你犯下的惡業。

 

幸福

 

 

 

成功佛堂第八期周刊-人人都該有的幸福秘訣

Success Stories

 

 

Real-Life Case Studies

Witness

My boyfriend and I grew up together as childhood sweethearts and were each other's first loves. But in our youth, we often argued over trivial matters due to our immaturity. Eventually, our relationship came to an end, and we parted ways in each other's lives.

After leaving him, I chose to pursue further studies abroad; he, however, heeded his parents' advice and married through an arranged match.

During my years studying abroad, I did have boyfriends, but those relationships eventually fizzled out due to incompatibility and other factors. Deep down, though, I knew it was because I would unconsciously compare those men to my boyfriend.

他們沒有他溫柔體貼、沒有他了解我、沒有他無限包容我、沒有他幽默風趣會鬧我開心,沒有他愛我……

 

I was so eager to finish my studies abroad just to come back and find him, but then I discovered he had already gotten married...

His parents felt he was at the right age for marriage, so they arranged blind dates for him, hoping he would marry soon and give them grandchildren. By the time I returned to China, he had already been married for nearly two years.

When I finally got in touch with him, I could tell he was overjoyed. He told me he never wanted to get married—it was his parents who kept pressuring him, and at the time he couldn't reach me. But he still loved me deeply and only wanted to marry me.

Blinded by love, I was swept away by his words. At that moment, I chose to stay by his side, waiting for him to get divorced.

 

Whenever he has free time, he comes to be with me—eating the meals I cook, watching the movies I want to see, accompanying me on shopping trips...

If only his wife hadn't shown up, I almost thought we were still a couple dating.

I urged him to hurry up and get divorced so he could marry me, and together we could build a happy and fulfilling family.

He agreed verbally, but he hasn't taken any action yet, which is making me a bit impatient.

I actively wanted to get pregnant so that he would feel obligated to divorce his wife, leaving him no choice but to do so. That way, I could become his legitimate partner.

Witness

One night, it suddenly occurred to me that back when I was in the U.S., a fellow Taiwanese classmate had mentioned that in Kaohsiung, " Lao Fo Ye " could help with any relationship issues. She and her current partner had actually gotten together because of this, and they'd been dating for four or five years now.

I couldn't wait until morning, so I called her in the middle of the night to ask for the exact location and details. Fortunately, the 12-hour time difference between the U.S. and Taiwan meant that when I called at 3 a.m., I didn't disturb her sleep.

After receiving the information from her, a sudden sense of reassurance welled up inside me. I felt that as long as I came here, my wish would be fulfilled.

天亮後,我就聯繫上了「泰上老佛爺」的陳老師,跟陳老師聊過一番讓他了解我的狀況後,我急忙詢問該怎麼做才能改善我的情況。

看到我這麼急陳老師推薦我可以做一場小三上位的愛情和合法事可以增進上位的機會,再加上供請「情慾咬咬膏」回去,增進自身魅力讓男友對我產生無止盡的情欲,成功懷孕後,上位的機率應該也能大增。

However, Master Chen also noted that not every third party is suited for the same ritual or the same sacred object. Since each person's karma and destiny differ, it's best to consult with Master Chen personally first to determine the most effective sacred object for resolving your issue. This prevents misjudging the situation and ultimately ending in failure.

After I brought home the arousal-enhancing balm, all our pajamas were replaced with sexy lingerie. Combined with my subtle teasing, my boyfriend couldn't resist. He'd often rush over the moment he opened the door after work. He barely went home anymore, spending every night at my place.

 

最後,在我們的希望之下,我終於懷孕了。

I begged him to give me a proper status, not to make me and the baby suffer. Holding my belly, I cried as I spoke. Perhaps Spellwork had taken effect—he finally agreed to take me to meet his parents and was willing to divorce his wife immediately.

一開始他母親是不同意的,畢竟我們之前的那段戀情過幼稚,常常鬧冷戰到雙方父母都要當和事佬。

但是聽到我懷孕的消息後,她的臉色有些軟化,我向她保證不會再像之前一樣愛生氣,一定會好好體諒男友、跟他好好過生活,她最後才終於鬆口答應。

With my boyfriend determined to divorce and his parents strongly backing him, he finally succeeded in divorcing his wife. Now I can bring my child to live with him legitimately.

Thank Lao Fo Ye, for Lao Fo Ye my wish and giving me a happy and fulfilling home today.

 

Witness

成功佛堂第八期周刊-人人都該有的幸福秘訣

 

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乾爹油

您是以下情況嗎?

★ 被包養的情婦
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老佛爺乾爹油

真正的鎖財迷魂法門,古法加持開光,迷魂鎖心山情咒。

何謂迷魂?即是鎖心,但是又不至於讓他對我們太著迷。

增強自身的迷魂效果,使對方對我們意亂情迷,而自己又有生活空間,對方也會在金錢物質上,給我們更多的實質幫助!不論對方是誰,只要是異性就會受乾爹油的影響,心甘情願主動掏錢出來。

尤其是交往初期,或者認識初期,就要去引導對方「願意為我們花錢」,先預先建立好相處規則,未來才會更順利,讓對方潛意識默認我們,值得他不斷付出,值得他拋元寶灑金幣!
乾爹油讓妳渾身散發黑色魅力氣場,貴婦吸引法則。

走在路上,回頭率與搭訕率是百分之百。我們內在美,逐漸綻放,在各種社交場合,因為勾魂磁場法則的關係,也更容易遇到多金心儀的異性!

其中最強大的則是提升貴人乾爹運,招來有錢的乾爹。無論是否單身,都會提供金錢上的機會與幫助。

送車,送房,每月生活費,各種名牌包,各種禮物接連不斷。

 

提升貴人乾爹運→讓對方主動掏錢出來

 

成功佛堂第八期周刊-人人都該有的幸福秘訣

出版:泰上老佛爺/成功佛堂
出版人:陳柏霖
編者:陳沛蓉
出刊日:2019.09.02

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