成功佛堂第十五期周刊-正宮‧小三‧老公，婚姻裡的被害者

The other woman, interfering in our relationship

My girlfriend and I are a lesbian couple who've been together for five or six years. Though we've broken up and gotten back together many times during that period, I didn't think much of it because our relationship wasn't very mature back then—we were still figuring things out and learning from each other.

Just when I thought our relationship was stable enough that we'd never part ways, I discovered a third person had come between us—and that third person was the girl she secretly admired during her teenage years.

We've argued and fought, but she calmly told me we can't go back to how things were. She's thinking about breaking up with me. She said this constant breaking up and getting back together is exhausting. She wants a stable, steady relationship—not something like kids playing house, where you just call it quits whenever you feel like it.

I told her I'd change, that I'd make her feel safer and keep her from leaving me. But she turned and walked away without a second thought. I waited from dusk till dawn, but she never came back to our home. This went on for days.

I think she might have gone to be with the other woman. I imagine she's probably very happy with her now— after all, it's someone she's liked for a long time. I guess she really doesn't want me anymore...

Will she hold her the way she holds me? Will she kiss her the way she kisses me? Will she whisper the same sweet nothings to her that she whispered to me?

Just thinking about it makes me so jealous. I wish she belonged only to me. I wish she'd come back to me.

As I cried, I thought to myself, and before long, I fell asleep.

A dream I nearly couldn't wake from, The distance between life and death.

In my drowsy state, I knew I was asleep, yet not in a deep slumber. I could discern the dream's content and even control my body within it.

In my dream, at first my vision was shrouded in mist. Gradually, the fog cleared, revealing a small wooden walkway before me. Beside it remained a mass of white, and I felt I was meant to follow this path.

I walked along this path for a long time, finally reaching its end. There lay a sandy beach and an expanse of ocean. Crossing the sand, I approached the sea step by step. The ocean seemed to possess a magical pull, beckoning me forward.

I gradually lost my ability to think, walking single-mindedly toward the sea. When I finally snapped back to reality, I found myself standing in the water, my feet no longer touching the bottom. Unable to swim, I panicked and flailed wildly, only sinking deeper. Just as I thought I was about to drown, a golden light seemed to descend from the heavens, striking the water. A pair of hands pulled me up from the sea.

當我意識過來自己已經被救了的時候，面前是一個穿著黑衣服的男人漸行漸遠的背影，耳邊彷彿是從遠處傳來的聲音，一次次不停地迴蕩：「到成功佛堂來，我會幫助妳的……」

I woke up right at that moment, drenched in cold sweat from the shock. The dream was so vividly real—if that person hadn't saved me, I felt like I would have been swallowed whole by the sea. Even after waking, his words remained crystal clear in my mind: he said he would help me once we reached the Success Buddha Hall.

What kind of help is he offering? Can he help me win back my love?

A voice inside me urged me to go, or I'd regret it. Driven by curiosity, I looked up the address of the Success Buddha Temple online and drove there alone.

The Buddha's guidance saved me.

Upon arriving at the Success Buddha Hall, I opened the door to find a large statue of the Success Buddha. The moment I saw it, tears began streaming down my face for reasons I couldn't explain. Kneeling before it, I wept uncontrollably, as if clutching a lifesaving buoy—a profound sense of security washed over me.

After I finished crying, I noticed someone standing behind me. He handed me a tissue and told me to wipe my tears first. Only after I dried my tears did I realize—wasn't this the very person who saved me in my dream?

在跟他聊了一下後，才知道原來他是成功佛堂的經營者──陳老師，他專門在幫助成功佛堂的菩薩與月老傳遞幸福、修補幸福。當下，我請求他幫助我，只要能挽回女友，要我付出什麼代價都可以。
陳老師跟我說，他是收到了成功佛的指示才會到夢裡去救我的，因為我前世欠下的業障太多，冤親債主的怨氣太重，所以現在到了要索報的時候，祂會盡一切辦法來破壞我現在的生活，讓女友劈腿、讓我傷心難過只是第一步而已，祂最主要的是要我的命，所以夢裡更是誘惑我去尋死，如果陳老師沒有及時出現救我的話，我就會在夢裡被溺死，現實生活中也會在睡夢中死去。

The teacher also said that I have a karmic connection with the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas in this lifetime. Since childhood, I have recited the Buddha's name alongside my grandmother, which is why the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas specially dispatched him to save me.

Teacher Chen's words sent chills down my spine. I asked him if he could help me clear the karmic debt I owed from a past life, so my girlfriend would come back to me.

陳老師讓我平時有空可以多做功德迴向、法事迴向，去消除前世累積的業障，除此之外老師還建議我可以做「同志降頭愛情法事」，鎖住女友的心讓她不再亂跑，能在我身上察覺到安全感，能花費更多的心心在我身上，不再被外面的小三所迷惑，另外還可以供請女同志回心轉意姻緣油回去，加速女友想要回心轉意的心思，讓她時常想起我們過去的甜蜜，放下對小三的執著。

只要我跟女友之間的感情能穩定、穩固，冤親債主就不會從這裡下手，之後再一點一點做功德迴向去消彌過去的業障就可以了。最重要的是「迴向」這件事情，陳老師說我之間跟著祖母一起念佛其實冥冥之中就有在累積功德，但是這些功德卻沒有管道可以被輸出給那些冤親債主，所以「迴向」的動作就非常重要，只有迴向了冤親債主才能接收到，才能彌平祂們的怨氣。

The first step to winning you back: I'll care more about you.

我做了法事並將姻緣油供請回家後，時常回想起陳老師的開釋，我也發心要從說好話、做好事、存好心來做起功德，善念善意的功德隨然微小但是卻是最不容易流失的，另外我也常常去布施供養需要幫助的人，只希望我的功德能早日消除冤親債主的業障，讓女友早日回來我身邊。

法事的半個月後，我發現女友回家的次數愈來愈多了，雖然偶爾還是會到小三那裡去，但她願意花多一點時間在我這裡總是好的。

陳老師也陸續發來訊息關心我最近如何，也教了我一些關於挽回的方法，如何讓女友更有安全感。
以前我可能不夠了解她、不懂她想要的是什麼，常常忍不住就跟她鬧脾氣，都是她在為我付出比較多。

I also realized I was wrong. I decided to change starting now. I learned to integrate into her social circle, to understand what she thinks about when she's with those friends; to be considerate of her, to learn to cook for her, so she wouldn't have to drag her tired body home after work every day and still have to prepare meals for me. Instead, she could enjoy food I cooked for her with my own hands;I've learned to care for her—preparing heating pads and brown sugar tea during her period...

Every day I treat her better than the day before, and gradually I can sense a shift in her attitude toward me. She no longer coldly rejects me as she once did, but instead responds with the same warmth I show her. This makes me feel that all my efforts are worthwhile.

After a month, I noticed she'd been staying home lately and seemed to have cut off contact with the other woman. I cautiously broached the subject with her, but she insisted she'd completely severed ties with the other woman and wouldn't have anything to do with her again.

She said that being with me back then made her feel incredibly irritable. Combined with the emotional issues between us, that's why she cheated—she wanted to find a place where she could feel supported. But as she spent time with the other person, her feelings toward me softened. Instead of anger, she began to recall my good qualities and reminisce about the sweetness of our early days together.

I think my girlfriend felt irritated back then—perhaps my past karma was at work, trying to sabotage our relationship. Later, she'd recall my good qualities, which should be around the time I sought out Teacher Chen.

Now, my relationship with my girlfriend has become increasingly stable, and we hardly ever argue anymore. I'm truly grateful to Teacher Chen and the Success Buddha for helping me climb out of the quagmire I was in before. They've transformed my life, and I'm so thankful!