Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew

This week's issue unveils the mystery behind men's infidelity. Discover the seven key reasons driving men to stray and learn how to keep your man in check. If you're trying to win back a cheating partner, don't miss this.


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Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew

Is a man's desire for sex instinct or need?
Even if the heart remains unshaken
Physical infidelity is betrayal
No amount of explanation can change the truth

Why can't men control their lower bodies?
Why are men always drawn to other women?
Can't there be a balance between sex and love?

This week's issue unveils the mystery behind men's infidelity. Discover the seven key reasons driving men to stray and learn how to keep your man in check. If you're trying to win back a cheating partner, don't miss this.

Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew

The inherent imbalance between sex and love in relationships
Men who prioritize sex over love
Naturally visual creatures
Pursuing the pleasures of sex and love

Win back your man starting here
Bring your man back to you

Men, can you keep your lower half under control?

Men always prioritize "sex" first, with "love" coming in second. For men who think with their lower half, affairs, cheating, and infidelity seem like everyday occurrences.

下面,老佛爺為各位女人解密,為何男人總是管不好自己的下半身?

Honey, stop thinking with your lower half all the time.

很多人說相對於女人的感性,男人就比較理性,但老佛爺覺得,男人的理性並不是真的理性,在事情的考慮上面,女人較常因為感情,而被左右情緒或決定,而男人比較不易因為情感所動搖,所以就顯得女人感性,男人理性。

Where can we see the irrationality of men?

When a man encounters a beautiful, sexy woman.

Men always lose their ability to think and become unable to move their legs when they see a sexy woman. At such moments, men seem inferior to women. At least women can still maintain their rationality and make judgments when they see a handsome man, while men are already captivated before any emotional connection has even begun.

This is a classic case of thinking with your lower half—even when your own woman is right beside you, you're still drawn to other women, your eyes clouded by lust.

Is there no way to resolve this situation, to make men focus solely on their own women?

Only I am allowed to be looked at. All other women, get lost.

這是上天賦予全世界男人的一種天性,雖然老佛爺無法改變天下男性,但老佛爺只要教妳專心顧好自己的男人就可以了。

Men may become infatuated with other women simply because they feel their own partner lacks charm or falls short of others. Though his heart remains with you, you must still take precautions beforehand to prevent him from making a grave mistake by succumbing to another woman's allure.

How do I do that?

Just make sure he doesn't have the time or opportunity to look at other women.

You may not be able to control other women's attraction to your man, but you can enhance your own charm and appeal. Keep him interested in you—both emotionally and sexually—at all times. As your allure grows, other men will be drawn to you too. When that happens, your man will be busy protecting you from those advances, leaving him no time to look elsewhere.

Got it now?

Using your own spear to attack your own shield—isn't that simple?

Quickly boost your charm so your man won't have time to look at other women!

Men, Keep Your Lower Body in Check Relationship Counseling Relationship Issues Marriage Counseling

Why do men always prioritize sex over love?

Most women's assessment of men boils down to: "They're creatures who think with their lower half."

I'm sure you're all well aware that most men are perpetually obsessed with lust and sex, which is precisely why they earn such a reputation among women.

But why do men always put "sex" before "love"?

在這之前,老佛爺要先告訴大家,無論是男人還是女人都是視覺動物,只不過女人是展現在自己身上,喜歡美麗的、漂亮的自己,熱衷於將自己變美;而男人,則是喜歡看美麗的、漂亮的女人,熱衷於征服她們。

Though both are visual creatures, their approaches to relationships differ greatly. Men, once attracted to women, typically prioritize their physical appeal, seeking to conquer them in bed. Only after achieving physical harmony do they desire to develop deeper affection. Women, however, first cultivate love before seeking to enter the stage of physical and emotional union.

Can you change a man's mind?

Differing views on love and sex seem to be an innate instinct for men and women. While these perspectives can be shaped by acquired beliefs, women should be mindful not to nag men constantly—this could backfire, causing him to grow weary of you and ultimately decide to leave.

The best approach is to subtly influence him over time, gradually correcting his mindset without him even noticing.

這樣的做法妳覺得很難嗎?沒關係,老佛爺還有更實際一點的。

Since men tend to place greater importance on sex, all you need to do is accommodate him well. Satisfy him, keep things fresh for him with you, and play with him using different techniques. Make him feel that you two are incredibly compatible sexually. That way, his love for you will deepen even further.Then use love to influence him. Employ both sex and love as powerful tools simultaneously, and you'll never have to fear him leaving or betraying you.

老佛爺再教大家一個小秘訣,當女人有要求要跟男人提時,最好是在性愛過後,當男人得到滿足時,防備感會降低,對妳更是會無比憐愛,這時無論妳提出什麼問題,我想男人們只會說好吧!

Don't take the idea that men prioritize sex over love too seriously. If you play your cards right, you can come out ahead too.

Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew Sex Trumps Love - Men, Keep Your Lower Body in Check - Relationship Counseling - Marriage Counseling - Marriage Issues

Several Reasons Why Men Have Affairs

女人們有福了!老佛爺今日要來盤點男人會外遇的原因,讓妳們可以事先做好防護,防範於未然,將出軌的火苗撲熄在尚未燃起時。

Seven Major Reasons Men Cheat

  1. The home environment is too cold and distant, leaving the man feeling no warmth, prompting him to seek out warmer women and families.
  2. The mundane chores of daily life—rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea—make men weary and eager to escape.
  3. Being with the same woman for too long, there's no novelty left.
  4. His partner couldn't satisfy him or give him the pleasure he craved in bed, so he had no choice but to seek it elsewhere.
  5. Seeking a sense of accomplishment and conquest to satisfy machismo
  6. The passion has faded; his wife has become just family, unable to rekindle the romance of their courtship days.
  7. Being tempted by other women while away from home or during one's wife's pregnancy

這七大項是老佛爺經過多年諮詢、修復夫妻之間的感情所統整出來的資訊,只要好好經營婚姻,不要觸犯到這七條地雷,相信妳的婚姻也可以一帆風順。

What should you do if your partner is unfaithful?

But perhaps what you'd like to know is: what if your partner really does cheat?

別擔心,即早發現即早治療,請立即與我們聯絡,讓老佛爺幫妳挽回婚姻,重獲幸福。

Regarding infidelity, you might also want to know: What are the signs of cheating in men and women?What are men really thinking when they cheat, and what do they gain from their mistresses?

Men's Affairs - Reasons for Infidelity - Sex Over Love - Relationship Counseling - Relationship Issues

Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew
見證-感情諮詢-情感問題-老佛爺

Case Studies in Relationship Recovery

Witness

My husband is a regular at hookup sites.

My husband and I have been married for two years, and over these past two years, he has truly broken my heart.

He repeatedly cheated physically, engaging in hookups and one-night stands. His phone and computer were filled with dating sites and escort service numbers.

He has a strong sex drive, yet claims he can't find satisfaction with me, which is why he pays for sex with other women. But he also assures me he loves only me, that those women are merely sexual outlets for him—he never develops real feelings for them.

I thought I'd become numb, that I'd grow accustomed to this life, but I realized I'm not that strong after all—I just can't do it. I've considered divorce before, but whenever that thought crosses my mind, he suddenly becomes kind again, treating me like an empress dowager, behaving himself for a while. But then he falls back into his old ways.

Actually, aside from the fact that we hook up frequently, he's a good husband. He often takes me out for walks, sometimes even going out of his way to pick me up after work. Whatever I ask for, he agrees to. Like before we got married, I insisted on not living with his parents, so he went alone to talk it over with them. After we got married, I wanted my own car, so he bought one for me out of his own pocket.

I remember all his kindness, but his cruelty has deeply hurt me. No woman wants to see her man sleeping with someone else...

If only he wouldn't sleep with other women, if only I were the only one in his life...

Transfer all your sexual desire for other women to me.

With this mindset, I gathered a vast amount of information online and tried numerous methods, yet nothing worked. Finally, with no other options left, I turned to divine intervention for help.

於是,我找上了當初我在蒐集資料時,最多人推薦的「泰上老佛爺」,同時它也是成功率最高的法事網站,我看了許多的成功案例見證,讓我挽回的心又更堅定了一點。

I contacted Teacher Chen through the information on the website. During our consultation, I explained my situation to Teacher Chen and strongly expressed my determination to win back my husband. I told him that as long as he had only me, I would be willing to do anything he asked.

Teacher Chen suggested I could use the "Fox-Sealing Ointment" to eliminate the appearance of other women around my husband and gradually diminish his desire to seek other partners. Combined with the "Desire-Enhancing Ointment" to boost my own allure, it would increase my husband's desire to be intimate with me and redirect his sexual interest in other women entirely toward me.

After hearing Teacher Chen's words, I offered everything without hesitation. At the same time, I followed Teacher Chen's advice and began grooming myself to better align with my husband's preferences. I even replaced all my nightgowns at home with sexy lingerie. I made a vow to Teacher Chen: if my husband truly stops seeking other women and remains faithful to me alone, I will dedicate myself to supporting Teacher Chen's successful Buddhist altar for the rest of my life.

Slip into sexy lingerie to captivate both your body and soul.

A week after I brought the oil back, perhaps thanks to the oil and the sexy nightgown, my husband started tackling me more often—almost every day—and even tore through several sets of my nightgowns.

After making love, I began to learn how to act coy with him, because they say men are least likely to refuse a woman at such moments. I told him I hoped he could spend more time with me, that he shouldn't go looking for other women, and while crying, I poured out my grievances and worries to him.

After making love, when he was showering me with affection, seeing me so helplessly dependent on him filled him with satisfaction. He quickly agreed.

Though it was only a verbal promise, I believe that the moment he sleeps with another woman, he won't be able to forget my tears from that day.

A month after I invited him to move in, he stopped hooking up with random women. He deleted all the escort girls' numbers from his phone. Now I see him home every day after work, unlike before when he'd only come back early every other day. Without those outside women, he's always looking for a chance to get intimate with me.

This is exactly the situation I'd hoped for. Now when we go out together, he doesn't even glance at other women! I believe my wish has come true, and I will honor the vow I made back then—to dedicate myself to supporting the Success Temple for the rest of my life.

Thank you so much for your help, Ms. Chen. Because of your support, I won't have to continue suffering in this marriage.

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Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew

Recommended by the Old Buddha—The foremost Dharma gate offered last week

Fox-Sealing Ointment

/ Severing Love Affairs · Eliminating the Third Party · A Life of Infidelity /

斬情敵‧斬桃花

 

Fox-Taming Ointment - Social Grace Ointment

Does your significant other exhibit any of the following behaviors?

★ Loves hooking up at hotels, casual sex
★ Chronically promiscuous
★ Constantly flirting around
★ Has a third party, affair

Is your significant other often away from home or lying to you?
Does your significant other have another woman?
Does your significant other frequently hang around different women?

All you need to do is win back your man, cut off those unwanted romantic entanglements and other women, so your man will never look elsewhere again—you'll be the only one by his side.

此聖物最好搭配其他法事或聖物一起供請的效果會更好。

Help you powerfully win back your man. You'll never again sit dumbly on the couch waiting for your husband to come home after hooking up or cheating. You'll have him completely—body and soul.

法事

Moonlight is a woman's bitter, lonely wait, the path she longs for each day to guide her man home. It carries the hopes and dreams of countless women, who have prayed to the moon countless times, hoping their husbands would return soon.

Therefore, the moon can be said to be a symbol that protects love.

老佛爺接引月光的力量,裡面含著許多元配的盼望與期許,還有月亮千萬年來默默守護的神秘力量,以及嫦娥在月亮之上的法力,並加入無數老佛爺獨門的秘料,施以斬桃花法門,耗以無數精力、時間與法力,才得這麼小小一瓶。

Yet it contains the most potent magical power to fulfill the wishes of all primary partners.

To vanquish the fox spirit, nothing beats the Sealing Fox's Glance Ointment!

.You.wish to slay.the fox spirit.

Cut off your partner's outside romantic entanglements

Success Buddha Hall Weekly Issue 19 - Secrets of Men's Affairs You Never Knew

出版:泰上老佛爺/成功佛堂
出版人:陳柏霖
編者:陳沛蓉
出刊日:2019.11.15

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