You might have seen them gather together to curse out a man, only to witness the same women clinging to that very man days later—the same man they'd cursed out so viciously.
At this point, I bet 99.99% of guys would be like, "WHAT THE HELL?"
Is it that women are inherently cheap? Or did that man slip her some kind of love potion?
Why are you such a nice guy, yet you've been single since birth for so long??
What kind of men do they like?
Below are the heartfelt words we've gathered from hundreds of women.
Table of Contents
1. Self-awareness
This is important.
We all have our flaws and face setbacks, but how we express them and whether they affect others is what truly matters.
As a real man, you need to consider other people's feelings.
2. Proactive
As a real man, you shouldn't sit on the couch waiting for your girlfriend to bring you a beer. Instead, you should stand up and ask her if she wants one.
Take care of your own affairs, and at the same time, care for others.
3. You and she should be equals.
Many men believe that to be a man means to control everything and dominate your relationship.
Perhaps in ancient times this idea wasn't wrong, but now, you're dead wrong.
Remember, you are equals. You should support each other and leverage your respective strengths to work together.
Focus on teamwork; leverage your partnerships to create mutual benefits for both sides.
4. Value yourself
A man should learn to love himself.
Healthy eating, regular sleep, exercise, or things you enjoy—never "feminize" yourself. Don't just follow what a girl you like does simply because she likes it.
Invest your time and energy in yourself, and girls will naturally notice your personal charm.
5. You are independent.
As a man, you should learn to be self-sufficient.
If you still rely on your parents to feed you and do your laundry, then you're still just a boy. Understand that your parents won't be around forever—only by standing on your own two feet can you truly win a woman's heart.
Especially when a man knows how to cook, women find it more heartwarming and are more easily charmed. "To win someone's heart, first win their stomach." This saying isn't just for women.
6. Always follow through on your commitments.
No matter how small the matter may be—perhaps you simply promised to return a call or reply to a message—
If you can't even remember or accomplish such a small thing, what else do they expect you to do? Fight for the country? Or save the world when the apocalypse comes?
What a woman truly wants is simply a man she can rely on. A man who breaks his word is not worthy of trust or dependence.
7. Focus on what you want.
If you're still a boy, messing around every day, running around all over the place, that's not a bad thing—because everyone goes through that phase.
But men are different. They know what they want in life, they know what's a waste of time, they know what they want, and they work hard to achieve their goals.
8. Becoming a man doesn't mean becoming a scumbag.
Some women genuinely prefer jerks because there's just something about them that draws them in.
But there are also women who dislike it. They might enjoy playing around, but that doesn't mean they're willing to love a jerk.
If you still possess self-discipline and know your own worth, then you are not a scumbag.
Being a jerk won't make you a man—it'll just make you a piece of trash.
Now that you've mastered the fundamentals, the rest is up to you to put into practice and make the changes.
What you can change, you must change yourself.
If there's something you can't change, you can come to us.
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